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http://wiki.keithl.com/InBetween

The In Between

Unforgettable Encounters During Life's Final Moments

Hadley Vlahos RN 2023 West Slope Lib. 616.029 VLAHOS


Vlahos interview, 31yo 2023/12/12

  • pVIII Episcopalian Baton Rouge, parents funeral directors and licensed embalmers in Baton Rouge
  • pIX age 10 moved to Destin FL

  • pXI high school friend Taylor Haugen dies of football game injury

  • pXII Florida State University, "party school"
  • pXIII pregnant at 19, summer before sophomore year
  • pXIV Son Brodie 2012/12/24
  • pXIV nursing degree 2015?, immediate care nurse, then nursing home, then hospice ca. 2017


  • p003 Ch1: Glenda (2016?)
  • p007 Glenda talking to deceased sister
  • p008 Continuous care (hospice nurse 24h)
  • p009 "she isn't hallucinating, she is crossing over"
  • p011 "My daughter thinks I'm crazy"
  • p019 Glenda comatose
  • p021 Time of death 8:42am - chandelier burns out with a pop


  • p022 Ch2: Carl (2017?) congestive heart failure, in his 80s
  • p023 wife Mary pediatric nurse
  • p026 Hadley mentions boyfriend Chris, physical therapist, Greek/Japanese heritage

  • p029 patient Ms. Morgan connives visit to Chris with Hadley
  • p030 Carl tells Hadley about Usain Bolt
  • p032 Carl out of bed, playing hide and seek with 2yo daughter Anna, who drowned years ago
  • p035 the surge of energy everyone gets before they die

  • p038 Carl time of death 4:47am


  • p041 Ch3: Sue
  • p045 Ms. Sue reels off information for chart
  • p046 "can you fold laundry worth shit?"
  • p048 Wheezing, pulseox 87% "not too bad"
  • p049 taught "always treat" ... except hospice
  • p055 stale bread, Sue Great Depression, never wasted food
  • p056 flashback to learning of pregnancy
  • p059 in church Father Tom skips sermon, says God told him to say "You need to give up your ideal life ... and have this baby.
  • p062 Sue reconnects with best friend of long ago
  • p065 Father Tom arrives, prays with Sue and Hadley
  • p068 Sue dies, Hadley not called because "Dad told Sue that Hadley couldn't handle it"
  • p069 Hadley mentioned in obituary, only happened twice more


  • p070 Ch4: Sandra
  • p071 Sandra 50yo female with breast cancer, chemotherapy, metastases ... Tesla ... husband George
  • p075 Flashback: Chris' mother Babette with glioblastoma, age 55
  • p079 Flashback: Nurse is Theresa, who trained Hadley ... and now seemed uncaring
  • p085 Sandra's daughter arrives at door - Hadley "Come here right now!", holds Sandra's hand while she took last breath


  • p087 Ch5: Elizabeth 40yo nonsmoker with lung cancer, used to teach yoga
  • p090 Flashback; anorexia, Teacher Ms. Lopez helps with sun while Hadley studies
  • p097 Elizabeth also was anorexic, says "Eat the cake"
  • p099 Hadley eats Christmas cheesecake


  • p106 Ch6: Edith (husband John)
  • p108 Alzheimer's levels: 5 Moderate Dementia, 6 Moderately Severe, 7 Severe (no words)
  • p117 "She thinks the bedroom is on fire"
  • p126 pressure ulcer from not being turned.

  • p127 actually Kennedy ulcer skin organ shutting down

  • p132 bedroom caught on fire a few months later


  • p134 Ch7: Reggie
  • p136 Hadley's father says a real nurse saves lives
  • p138 Reggie 58yo with end-stage liver disease (alcohol)
  • p141 partner Lisa
  • p141 Reggie ascites "bloated stomach" (fluid in abdomen), sign of liver cancer

  • p146 Chris proposes to Hadley

  • p150 Regie says it is 1977, and he is in Mexia, Texas with his parents and Grandmother

  • p158 Hadley learns that Lisa suicided after she left


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  • p174 Ch9: Babette
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  • p191 Ch10: Albert
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  • p225 Ch11: Frank
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  • p238 Ch12: Adam
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  • p249 Conclusion
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